I was never really raised around very many girls. I spent my first few years of elementary at a private school, then I was homeschooled, then I went back to the private school in 7^th grade for a semester, then I boned out and homeschooled until I graduated early. As such, I was not really around girls very much unless I was at my youth group. We want girls to like us, but we don’t want...

     This topic deals strongly in relation to my last blog post, which I had removed because of the unsettlingly hostile response to it. But on the plus side, I can use it as a good example here.

    Christianity requires community, and community implies accountability. But one thing I have noticed about accountability, is that it can’t simply be thrown out for all to see and offer “council”...

There are a lot of things the world is short on right now. Fossil fuels, jobs, strong families, and finances are all in excruciatingly short supply and pretty much everyone knows about it. But one thing the world ISN’T short on is sex. It’s abundant, it’s free and it’s EVERYWHERE. And in times like these, people really need it! But great deals of us are abusing that abundance. Television,...

    Sex is always something that I’ve been afraid of. Some parts of it I feared mildly, while other parts I feared would ruin my marriage. And how could I not be afraid? After being exposed to so much sexuality over the years, I feel like there is a sort of “standard” that I will have to live up to in my sexual life. I’ve always been fearful of growing man boobs or getting overweight, and the...

Sex culture. It’s literally all around me, and I’ve just about had it. Just yesterday, I was at the grocery store shopping for ingredients for my mother’s birthday dinner (which will be scrumptious by the way), and when I got to the line, I had the displeasure of experiencing somewhat of a sexual assault. The culprit: Magazines.

While standing in line, my mind raced for a way out of my...

Marriage to me always seemed pretty lame. You basically submit yourself to another person, stress yourself out, become responsible for your spouse’s actions, and get to constantly worry about that tall man-hunk that keeps talking to her. And up until I was around the age when you start to realize that sex is more than just laying naked next to your wife and the next day she’s pregnant, I had...

Marriage to me always seemed pretty lame. You basically submit yourself to another person, stress yourself out, become responsible for your spouse’s actions, and get to constantly worry about that tall man-hunk that keeps talking to her. And up until I was around the age when you start to realize that sex is more than just laying naked next to your wife and the next day she’s pregnant, I had...

We all have those moments. We shut the laptop, feel that overwhelming sensation of guilt, and put on our favorite “anti-lust” hardcore song. We rummage through our Bibles, looking for anything that can support us and give us hope. We want that guilt taken away as soon as humanly possible. We get on our knees and we confess our sin to God, sometimes we even try to push out a few tears....