Last week, I talked about how I was looking at porn mostly out of curiosity, and about how that awakened a desire to know how to REALLY treat a woman. Porn wasn’t cutting it, not even close.

    Teenager culture is really foreign to me. I was raised in a Christian home and didn’t run into many cute girls at church. I went to a private Christian school where every girl had cooties (plus...

     The very first time I ever looked at pornography, I did it all in the name of “education.” I was much younger than I am now, and I all I knew about intimacy were the things my friends were always joking about. I was grossed out and stopped after that, I knew how it worked, or at least I told myself that.

    So when my friends told more sex jokes, I got more and more curious about what...

     Lust has been a huge part of my life for many many years, even before I really got into all this “God stuff.” I used to just go to church, but then I got more involved and “became” the church, as cheesy as that sounds. All the while though, I was always lusting, discovering masturbation, and not getting caught because of my wandering eyes. At the same time, I would be picking up my Bible...

One thing about me that is both a blessing and a curse, is the fact that I tend to be a bit responsible. I feel responsible for my friends when they get in a rut, and so I will rush to help them. I feel responsible when someone entrusts me with a task(although sometimes I can be super late on writing these things...), and try to take care of it with a consistent work ethic. I take...

Clothing has been a big part of youth culture, ESPECIALLY in the past decade. But I haven't been alive for half as long as most of you, so I could be wrong. Maybe clothing was a bigger deal in the 1800's, I dunno.

So, being someone who likes to let people know what kind of stuff I like (see my last blog), clothing has always helped display my ego. There are basically two things I like a LOT:...

      I was never really raised around very many girls. I spent my first few years of elementary at a private school, then I was homeschooled, then I went back to the private school in 7^th grade for a semester, then I boned out and homeschooled until I graduated early. As such, I was not really around girls very much unless I was at my youth group. We want girls to like us, but we don’t want...

     This topic deals strongly in relation to my last blog post, which I had removed because of the unsettlingly hostile response to it. But on the plus side, I can use it as a good example here.

    Christianity requires community, and community implies accountability. But one thing I have noticed about accountability, is that it can’t simply be thrown out for all to see and offer “council”...

There are a lot of things the world is short on right now. Fossil fuels, jobs, strong families, and finances are all in excruciatingly short supply and pretty much everyone knows about it. But one thing the world ISN’T short on is sex. It’s abundant, it’s free and it’s EVERYWHERE. And in times like these, people really need it! But great deals of us are abusing that abundance. Television,...

    Sex is always something that I’ve been afraid of. Some parts of it I feared mildly, while other parts I feared would ruin my marriage. And how could I not be afraid? After being exposed to so much sexuality over the years, I feel like there is a sort of “standard” that I will have to live up to in my sexual life. I’ve always been fearful of growing man boobs or getting overweight, and the...

Sex culture. It’s literally all around me, and I’ve just about had it. Just yesterday, I was at the grocery store shopping for ingredients for my mother’s birthday dinner (which will be scrumptious by the way), and when I got to the line, I had the displeasure of experiencing somewhat of a sexual assault. The culprit: Magazines.

While standing in line, my mind raced for a way out of my...