When we talk about relationships, we often talk about all of the things we do wrong and all of the mistakes we make.  Let’s discuss moving forward with relationships that have a good foundation and can grow into what we would like for them to be.

Finding Good Ground

We want to have not only good relationships, but exceptional, long-lasting, anointed relationships!  If that’s what you expect,...

"Consuming pornography does not lead to more sex, it leads to more porn. Much like eating McDonalds everyday will accustom you to food that (although enjoyable) is essentially not food, pornography conditions the consumer to being satisfied with an impression of extreme sex rather than the real."---Virginie Despentes

I’m a relationship writer and coach but at my core, I’m an observer of...

C: "I'm in a relationship with a guy and its pretty serious but I engage in cybersex from time to time with other people. Personally, I don't think it's a big deal being that I'm never going to meet those men and I'm not technically doing anything wrong. Do you think that I'm cheating?"

A: We live in a very interesting time. We have several things which can distract us on a momentary basis:...

I have two daughters and I’m single, so a topic like this resonates with me in a multitude of ways. How do we deal with the powerful persuasion to have a physical relationship with our significant other before marriage? I used the term “powerful persuasion” purposefully.  A "powerful persuasion" can be your partner pressuring you to have sex. A "powerful persuasion" can be your own thoughts...

One of the definitions of sobriety is “the quality of refraining from excess.”  Most of us automatically relate sobriety to alcoholism or the recovery from the addiction. Sobriety is more than recovery from alcoholism, it applies to many things. Consciously denying the compulsions of life is not easy for any of us. Refraining from excess is definitely not a cakewalk, especially when we live in...

There is an illusion we would all love to live up to. The illusion is we (guys, especially) want someone with a perfect body. This may mean slightly different things for different people, but ultimately it means hoping to arrive at whatever the fantasy is we carry that a perfect woman looks like. Guys are often very visual, so it’s not unusual for women to want to live up to entertaining the...

We have to understand how to deal with our ex-whatevers.  Ex-boyfriends, ex-husbands, ex-jump offs, whatever he was to you.  We must learn how to address those situations. 

First of all, if you are trying to move forward, I feel that closure is difficult if your ex is your friend/follower on social media.  If you are struggling moving forward and you’re talking to your ex everyday on Facebook...

Recently, during one of my studying sessions, I heard someone say the definition of wisdom is discerning God’s voice and following it harmoniously.  I really appreciate this definition.  We’re discussing the question of what I want in a wife in this article and only wisdom can answer what I thought was a simple question.  It’s not nearly as simple as I thought…  

I have always wanted an...