Jeff Fisher is a blogger, podcaster, and minister. He and his wife Marsha live in Raleigh, NC with their two children Caleb and Noah. They run the website www.porntopurity.com, a site designed to offer hope, encouragement, and resources to individuals and couples struggling with sexual sin. His Top Tips For Sexual Purity Podcast is also available on I-Tunes.
PROFILE OF XXXCHURCH BLOGGER JEFF FISHER
Profile: Jeff Fisher. Founder of Porn to Purity.com. XXXChurch.com blogger. Podcaster.
History of struggling with sexual sin including: internet porn, masturbation, magazines, bad TV channels, movies, newspaper ads, fantasy, objectification of women.
Family of Origin: Parents remained married. Attached mother. ...
“The total amount of undesired sex endured by women is probably greater in marriage than in prostitution.” Bertrand Russell (British philosopher)
“Undesired sex endured” = my wife doesn’t want it, but she puts up with it, or is forced to have it
THE LUST MINDSET
Men, so much of this is about us and our desire for an orgasm. We give little consideration to our wives, their souls, their...
“Sex and the City changed everything for me, because those girls would sleep with so many people.”
The show itself is not a trigger for me, but I have 50 other TV shows and 200 movies that I could substitute. Media that has shaped the way I think about sexuality, mostly for the worst. No doubt, I am short on godly media influences and large on worldly.
WHY DO HBO AND...
We join Jeff again this month talking about the struggles we as men deal with during a month of love. Jeff shares with us how to deal with the temptations during this season of love and how that looks.
Jeff Fisher from Porn to Purity is here this week to provide some great tips and strategy for dealing with the temptations of Valentines Day.
We join once again this month from Porn to Purity, Jeff Fisher through his video blog.
This week Jeff Fisher from Porn to Purity shares his blog with us through one of his video blogs.
In your sexual struggles, when do you feel out of control? Do you feel like porn is turning you into a different person?
Before I lost my job because of my porn habit I felt totally in control. I felt like I could stop my porn at any time and I could handle it. Now, 5 years into my recovery, I realize I was WAY out of control.
When I let my sexual desires take the wheel I turn into a...
Porn Sucks! 5 Ways Porn Disconnects Us From Our Families
Hey, guys out there with a wife and kids! This month on the XXXChurch Men’s blog we’re thinking about the consequences of porn.
Porn sucks… in many ways! Porn is a leech draining life, energy, and passion that we could be giving our families. Let’s get a broader understanding of how porn is affecting us and our famlies.
Time Suck –...
So what are you going to do now?
What do you think you ought to do?
Do you feel bad about it?
Are you trying to avoid the thought about it and put it in the past?
Maybe you think, “I’ll feel bad about it today, but I’m going to do some good things for my wife and make up for it. Then I won’t feel so bad.”
Or you think if you push it away you’ll feel less guilty about it tomorrow. Has that...