"No adultery is bloodless."---Natalia Ginzburg

This particular situation is close to my heart because I have been the person crying and confused over this exact scenario. Honestly, my relationship with God has become stronger because He has guided me through my feelings and self-inflicted guilt due to becoming involved with a man who has an ex-wife and two small children. I will venture to...

"Sex is emotion in motion."---Mae West

Mae West’s quote, “Sex is emotion in motion” is a far cry from truth in my world. Frankly, this quote is disgusting to me. As I reflect on any past decision or action taken on emotion, it has gotten me absolutely nowhere. Let’s reverse back to my life four not so short years ago...

At this time in 2009, I was hungry for attention. I was at the end of a...

Porn makes me angry. Porn makes me cry.  Porn is relief. Porn is easy. Porn is one of the reasons I have issues with almost any relationship.  Porn has educated me. Porn. Porn. Porn.

When I reflect on my younger self, I think about a sheltered country girl from the boonies whose idea of sexual sin, at the very WORST, was having someone lie about a relationship behind her back.  I never thought,...

What do I do?   I sit in the dark.  I don’t want to turn on any form of media.  But then again, I want to feel excited, because it has been so long since I have been in a relationship with a real, live human being.  It has been so very long since someone has embraced me.  It has been so very long since someone has told me that they love me, that they feel excitement when they are around me.

My...

Where are you going?
Where are you going?
Can you take me with you?
For my hand is cold
And needs warmth
Where are you going?

Far beyond where the horizon lies
Where the horizon lies
And the land sinks into mellow blueness
Oh please, take me with you

Let me skip the road with you
I can dare myself
I can dare myself
I'll put a pebble in my shoe
And watch me walk (watch me walk)
I can walk and walk!
(I can...

A few months ago, I was listening to a pastor speaking about changes in life in an Easter Sunday service.  He said we always like for people, especially ones who we haven’t seen in a good while, to come up to us and say, “Wow, you haven’t changed a bit!” This statement is very complimentary to our egos, but not really much else.  It would be much more endearing to our hearts (though we...

To get something you have never had, you must do something you have never done.

What You've Never Done- A Good Southern Girl's GUIDE to a Disastrous Coming Out Party

I have been a hider for most of my life.  "The truth" and "What is in the light of day" have always been things in my life that have gray areas shaded in them.  I’ve tried to blame this problem on my parents, my upbringing, my...