I have found for me that the key to this is 'forgiveness' and 'mind renewal'.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean that the offense didn’t happen; it means you are choosing to release the offender from the debt owed to you.

Forgiveness really isn’t for the offender as much as it is for us.  When we choose to forgive an offender; an un-repentant offender at that, we are the ones who walk in...

I believe that we are called to love and are called to mercy. That can be displayed in staying and it can be displayed in separating.

When a woman first finds out that her husband is wrapped up in this blanket of sexual sin there are a range of emotions that grip us. We are dumbfounded, hurt, shocked, angry and embarrassed.  In my opinion, we must allow God to help us in dealing with...

I am…

I am a woman.
I am a believer of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
I am a mother.
I am the wife of a man bound by the lie of porn.
I am embracing the freedom that Christ offers in the midst of the storm.

I am not…

I am not a counselor.
I am not super-human or super spiritual.
I am not without sin of my own.
I am not better than my spouse.
I am not alone even though I am alone.


It is my desire to be...

Lisa found herself at the end of her rope.  She was in her forties and had worked in the sex industry doing massages for almost twenty years.  Completely messed up from years in this lifestyle she reached out to us for help.  Thanks to the donations made to the Esther Fund we were able to locate a Christian based counseling center that worked on a sliding fee scale and we provided months of...