Shellie R. Warren

Shellie R. Warren is into all things covenant. Her first love of writing has afforded her the opportunity to write for well over 50 publications including the recent book release, "Purity's Big Payoff/Premarital Sex Is a Big Rip-off". Shellie has authored two published books: "Inside of Me: Lessons of Lust, Love and Redemption" ('04) and "Pure Heart: A Woman's Guide to Sexual Integrity" ('10). She is also the teen mom director for the local chapter of a national non-profit in Nashville, a premarital/marriage counselor and a doula. Shellie also has an online ministry. http://onfirefastmovement.blogspot.com/ is for single women who desire to be prepared for marital covenant. She recently developed a T-shirt line (PerezLinen) centering around these themes and is in the process of premiering "Reluctant Celebrities"---a (somewhat) atypical platform for modern-day discipleship.

You can contact Shellie at [email protected]

Shellie R. Warren

There is a website that I dig. It’s called Sevenly (Sevenly.org, to be exact). Every week, it designs a shirt in honor of a charity that you can purchase (so that some of the proceeds will go to it). Well, this past week, the charity was The Mocha Club which is an organization that provides food and education to children in African communities. One of the T-shirt designs features the African...

marriageTrains wrecks. There’s nothing like seeing one coming and people not doing all they can to prevent it. Although this can cover a lot of ground, being that this month’s theme is focused on prevention, I want this post to center around being in unhealthy dating relationships.

Here’s what’s inspired it (at least this time-LOL). I have a friend who was recently telling me about two people who go...

A couple of years ago…

I designed a shirt that said “Purity Is the New Virginity”. My motive behind it? Well, it has been my observation (partially due to some of the folks that I talk to on this site and also due to some of the youth that I used to work with) that although it was God’s intention for purity and virginity to be one in the same, that really isn’t the case. And it hasn’t been for...

PurgingYesterday, I left my 30s.

It’s funny because while a lot of people (and in my experience, especially women) tend to darn near hyperventilate when it comes to entering into their 40s, I am thrilled about it. It has been my belief, for quite some time now, that if you’ve taken each year of your life serious and literally, then when it’s time to get one year older, you should actually be looking...

Love Sex Hate PornSo, here are some stats on women and porn addiction:

About half (49%) of young adult women agree that viewing pornography is an acceptable way of expressing one’s sexuality.

62% of women have seen pornography by the age of 18.

About 1 in 5 women (18%) use the Internet for sexual purposes habitually—every week.

The reason why I’m sharing these is because it actually amazes me that a large...

storyRecently, while doing some internet surfing, I read an article on Pamela Anderson that had me be like “Wow, that’s horrible. And makes a lot of sense, actually.” It was a story that revealed the fact that she had been molested for a lot of her childhood and raped as well.

Here’s an excerpt from People.com:

"I did not have an easy childhood. Despite loving parents, I was molested from age six...

dropping the ballRecently, I read an article that had me be like, “OK, when are we really going to start looking into why all of these grown teachers are sleeping with their students?!?” Some of you might have seen the story as well. It was about a high school in Texas that had five teachers resign within a year after allegations surfaced of them having a relationship with one of the students. One male teacher...

sexIf you ever happen to write me on this site, you’ll see that within my response, there is a quote at the bottom of my emails by M. Scott Peck that simply, yet profoundly, says this: "Sex is the closest that many people will ever come to a spiritual experience. Indeed, it is because it is a spiritual experience of sorts that so many chase after it with a repetitive, desperate kind of abandon....

AddictionSomething that I tend to watch on Sundays is Super Soul Sunday on OWN. And recently, as I was finishing up a deadline, I caught something that author Gary Zukav said on the show that really resonated with me; something that I strongly believe will provide some comfort (and perhaps confirmation) for some of you as well.

You know something is an addiction when you feel like you can’t stop...but...

RecoveryRecovery is a word we throw around a lot on this site. It’s something that we read about but sometimes don’t fully understand. As someone who would consider myself to be in a continual state of porn and sexual (not necessarily in that order) recovery (because true recovery is a lasting process), the first thing that came to my mind was the definitions of it.

One is “to get back or regain...