In the 80’s there was a anti-drug commercial that said “This is your brain, this is your brain on drugs. Any questions?”   I’m going to kick it up a notch. “This is your brain, this is your brain on porn”. Our minds are amazing creations. They are a rolodex of memories and knowledge. The problem is we take better care of our MACs/PCs than we do with “natures computer”. We will download...

When I was approached about writing a blog on manhood I started brain storming about what  real man was. Instantly figures like John Wayne, Clint Eastwood, Wyatt Earp and Chuck Norris came to mind. After writing a rough draft I realized I missed the mark. I missed the most manly guy I know and that was my father. He is the one of the few people in my life who shadow the image of Jesus. Is he...

Keeping secrets is never fun. I know from personal experience. When I was in the 7th grade I was not the best student. I was always thinking about music, wrestling and my skateboard. In those days (the 80's) the schools only sent home progress reports if you were failing a class. Yep you guessed it not only did I get one, I got three! I knew there was no way I was taking these things home. So...

One of the most important keys to overcoming porn is boundaries. Most of us don’t like that word because we feel like it confines us. I will be the first to admit I feel that way. We have dreams of wide open spaces, living life to the fullest and like I heard a guy once say “ I’m going to live my life with no boundaries.” As great as that may sound its unrealistic. There must be some stability...

Reality Bites.. A Friend's True Story

By Steve-Oh

All of us at one point in time have attempted to live out a fantasy. Some of us (like myself) have played in bands with visions of world tours, raging fans and a really cool tour bus. While others have fantasies of being rich, famous, great ball players the list goes on and on. I see this behavior in my son one day he is Batman another he is...

From as far back as we can go in history men have been looking at pornographic images.

Check your Bibles if you don’t believe me. Read the story of David as he stood watching Bathsheba bathe, or when the religious dragged the adulteress woman to Jesus. You know they stood around and watched her perform before they decided to pull her out. Go back to the excavations of Pompeii in the 1860's...

Recently my wife asked me “why do men stare at our boobs”?  I really didn’t know what to say. I went with the you know are visual by nature line. She agreed then went on to tell me how recently she has noticed men staring at her chest while she is having a conversation with them. She went on to tell me that one dude during their entire talk never looked her in the eyes. My wife told me not...

I was going through some of my older blogs a while back and came across this one from about 2 years ago. I added a little more to it and decided to share it again.

What is pornograffitti? You are not going to find the definition of it in Websters dictionary. Yes, Pornograffitti is an album title. But this is how I interpret the word, the definition by Steve-Oh. Pornograffitti is the junk...

In my line of work I come into contact with a wide variety of people. I talk with murders, rapists, drug addicts, drug dealers, child abusers, thieves you name the crime I have talked with someone who has committed it. I am surrounded by men like this on a daily basis.Sometimes I read their crime versions and wonder to myself how and why does Jesus love people who do such horrible things? I...

Over the last few weeks I have been listening to the stories of tornado survivors from all over the U.S. In those stories I heard numerous accounts of people making life or death decisions in just a matter of seconds. You hear heroic stories of military personnel who make those quick decisions to save their platoon from serious injury or death. We have all at some point in our lives had to...