Why Porn

Porn is represented in almost all media forms and is a driving force behind advertising campaigns. The sales on porn is astronomical and the amount of it out there is amazing. 

There is $3,075 spent every second on adult material, according to CNBC. Each second, 28,000 Internet users are viewing porn; and every 39 minutes, a new adult video is being produced. Not only is porn being made for...

Sound Familiar?

by Why Porn on February 5 2010 in The Haps | Comments

The National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity has defined sexual addiction as "engaging in persistent and escalating patterns of sexual behavior acted out despite increasing negative consequences to self and others." Sexual addiction is best described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and acts. Like all addictions, its negative impact on...

Every day we walk through our lives watching all of the things that are unnerving to see. Ambushed by images by the minute. What if you begin to see soft porn on tv shows and pictures in advertisements as something that could break your heart? 

What if we could simply see these images for what they are, dirty whiffs of smoke and parentheses of distraction that actually could have no real hold...

We see people every day of the week that are thinking the thoughts of WHY PORN has a hold on them and why they cannot get away from it. What if porn was really seen for what it is - if it was actually seen as smelling someone's breath after they take a drink or smoke a cigarette. A second hand experience that destroys relationships, character, trust, honesty, faith, and families.

What would...

Do you ever wonder what to pray for? It could start with your family and friends - that they are safe and that the ones that do not know Jesus come to know Him. Then asking Jesus to show you the things in your life that you could work on with Him to be more like Him. 

Lately we have been praying for people that are lost in the sex industry. Our prayer has been that people can see how much of...

“I have a friend who”…. It’s a phrase people use every day and people automatically think the person saying it is talking about themselves and oftentimes it’s true. People will want to gauge the reaction of another person by not specifically linking an issue they talk about with an issue they actually have.

But it’s not what we are talking about today. I’d like you to think of that friend. A...

Why Porn?

by Why Porn on January 11 2010 in The Haps | Comments

The porn show in Vegas happened this past weekend and stirred up lots of memories for me. To pick up where I left off last week…So I was in South Beach after the porn convention in 2002 and I felt TOTALLY alone (see beginning of story here) and I thought a change of locations could change me so in the fall of 2002 I moved back to Lexington Kentucky. I gave up my adult entertainment booking...

Why Porn? Begins Now

by Why Porn on January 5 2010 in The Haps | Comments

The Las Vegas Porn Show is coming up tomorrow and it started a train of thought for me about WHY PORN? It was an addiction that consumed me for 24 years. So the question – WHY? When did it have a tight grip on me? When did I hit my bottom? What lives were marked by my addiction? How did it start?

 I grew up feeling alone and isolated and spent a large amount of time by myself and at the age...