Hey guys -- In my battle I have decided to write a letter to my future wife. It's one of my greatest motivators to stay pure. Maybe this will be a blessing to some...maybe it's a good idea to do. It was therapeutic for me and I just wanted to share with you all my goals regarding a future marriage. Anyway, feel free to leave comments if you maybe think I should add something or take something out. God Bless



March 9, 2010

To Whom It May Concern,

I don't know you yet, but I love you. If you are reading this, then you already are or will become my wife. I have happily thought about you for a long time now and figured I would share my thoughts of how I feel
about you. You see, following Christ has been my first priority for some time now. As of right now, you are solidly in second place :). Look at it as being first place among humans. Way to go! So why am I writing this note to you? How can I love you without seeing you? Well dear, allow me to explain myself.
I don't know you yet, but I am preparing myself for you. I see the a glimpse of the kind of man God wants me to be for you and the kind of man I am now and I know that I have work to do! So everyday my promise to you is that I will work to be the kind of man you deserve and the kind of man that can be worthy of your love. The kind of man who can love you unconditionally. The kind of man who will protect you and honor you. The kind of man who will serve you until the day he dies. The kind of man who will lead a family spiritually. The kind of man who will sacrifice everything for you. It becomes easy when I love you as much as I do.
I don't know you yet, but I am staying pure for you. Every action I take, every muscle I move, every thought that goes through my head, and everything I say must honor God the Father. You were made for me by God
himself. I was made for you. Nothing will get in the way of that HOLY union that He has put together. It's just you and me. I am awaiting you as God promises me he has you on deck. No temptation, nothing that can be offered to me in this world can match how important you are to me.
I don't know you yet, but I can't wait to be with you. I can't wait to make you feel like the most important of God's creations. I can't wait to pursue you after I meet you. I can't wait to make you feel loved. I can't wait to make you feel safe. I can't wait to fulfill God's promises in our lives together with you. I can't wait to have our first date. I can't wait to ask you to be my bride. I can't wait to meet you at the end of the aisle. Most of all, I can't wait to spend my life with you.

I don't know you yet, and I can't wait to meet you.

Love,
Yours