I have been visiting porn sites off and on for several years now (I'm 30) withought it really affecting my life, or so I thought. I have been married to a wonderful christian woman for almost a year and she happened to stumble across some of the sites I have recently visited and was just shattered. She feels like she can't trust me anymore, and I don't blame her. I have downloaded the X3 software to help with my temptation and have been praying about it but I don't know if I am strong enough to handle it by myself. My wife wants me to talk to somebody but I feel awkward and embarrassed discussing it with friends and I don't like therapists. Any suggestions? How do you stop doing something that was never really considered taboo during childhood. My dad had Playboys in his offce all the time!!