Spouses - Confessions

I am messed up. I've been an on and off porn addict for 10 years. I was a virgin the day I got married 3 years ago. I've studied and worked toward leading people to God since I can remember. 2 months ago I started toying with hook up apps on my phone. The exact same time I was finishing ye interview and process for me to take my first teaching pastor position full time. Two weeks ago I had sex...

I have been married to my husband for 5 years and we've been together for 8 years but he is addicted to porn. Some days he thinks he has a problem but other days he don't. It is ruining our relationship to the point that Ive cheated on him twice to try to make him realize that I could leave but I dont because I love him and want him to get better so that we can be a happy family. On New Years...

I was introduced to porngraphy at an early age. Touched by different men in my life in my elementary school age. I have been masturbating since then. I have struggled with this for years on and off. I had been fine for several years of my marriage, until I found my husband was watching porn on his phone. Which just open a door that I wish never opened. Knowing my husband was this way hurt me...

I just need a little guidence with this...i recently found out that my husband is addicted to porn and sex chatting to random girls on Facebook. He said he had started looking at porn back in June of this year. It really hurt me to find out that he was doing this and when i have always told him that iam no longer confident with myself. We have been together for 5 years but married for one....

My husband has been battling porn for quite some time now. Since high school (or maybe before?). I first found out while we were engaged. It crushed me. I felt betrayed and alone. When we got married I thought it stopped. One day I found something that made me think otherwise. I approached him on the subject and he confessed. I had never been so hurt. Was it me? Did he love me? Was I not...

I recently just got married, to a man I was with for 2 years. I always knew he had a bit of porn problem, but he wasn't very open with me about it, and I chose to not think about it much. We were involved sexually during those two years, so I figured that I had no right to judge even if he was. I just prayed about it. We recently married, and I felt sexual freedom. My problem was participating...

We are a Christian family with four kids, if you were to see us in church you would think that we have a great family, and we do. You would never guess that we have such a messed up story. We are white, middle class and both my wife and I were brought up in reasonably good homes. Ironically I now know that those things mean nothing.

We married young when we found out that my wife was...

So my fiance and love of my life has recently confessed to being an addict to porn and lust. It's so hard to see these words written about the one who matters so much to you. I have and am trying to be really strong for both he and I. It's just so hard. I'm on the heavier side, weight wise. Not obese, but could definately use a good tone up, and its hard to see these super skinny, big...

Being married to a sex addict is not an easy life. I know because I’ve been married to one for over 16 years. We began dating when I was 17 years old and our journey with sexual addiction began. At that time I discovered a massive stack of pornography magazines which I excused as boys being boys. However, unknowingly to me, this began my roller coaster ride with his addiction.

We married...

My husband and I have been married for over 29 years. Ten years ago, I discovered that he was having an emotional affair with a woman in another state that he knew from his teenage years. They had been communicating quite frequently by their cell phones and it had reached a point where he was questioning rather he was “in love” with me or not. During the restoration time, he also...