Spouses - Confessions

I recently just got married, to a man I was with for 2 years. I always knew he had a bit of porn problem, but he wasn't very open with me about it, and I chose to not think about it much. We were involved sexually during those two years, so I figured that I had no right to judge even if he was. I just prayed about it. We recently married, and I felt sexual freedom. My problem was participating...

We are a Christian family with four kids, if you were to see us in church you would think that we have a great family, and we do. You would never guess that we have such a messed up story. We are white, middle class and both my wife and I were brought up in reasonably good homes. Ironically I now know that those things mean nothing.

We married young when we found out that my wife was...

So my fiance and love of my life has recently confessed to being an addict to porn and lust. It's so hard to see these words written about the one who matters so much to you. I have and am trying to be really strong for both he and I. It's just so hard. I'm on the heavier side, weight wise. Not obese, but could definately use a good tone up, and its hard to see these super skinny, big...

Being married to a sex addict is not an easy life. I know because I’ve been married to one for over 16 years. We began dating when I was 17 years old and our journey with sexual addiction began. At that time I discovered a massive stack of pornography magazines which I excused as boys being boys. However, unknowingly to me, this began my roller coaster ride with his addiction.

We married...

My husband and I have been married for over 29 years. Ten years ago, I discovered that he was having an emotional affair with a woman in another state that he knew from his teenage years. They had been communicating quite frequently by their cell phones and it had reached a point where he was questioning rather he was “in love” with me or not. During the restoration time, he also...

I recently gave birth to our 2nd son (3 weeks ago tomorrow) but being I am very insecure about my looks I have already lost all the weight. I have noticed latly my husband has started watching porn again alot! I thought maybe it was cause he was not being pleased anymore from oral being that I am not supposed to have sex til atleast 6 weeks do he has ben getting it almost everyday yesterday...

My fiance and I just got engaged and are deeply in love. We know everything about each other. I lost my virginity when I was a junior in high school and told him about it after dating for a few months. When I told him he told me that he had a porn addiction for 2 years and left it at that. He says that he hasn't had the desire to since he's met me, but I get so freaked out that he is still...

Im a wife of a porn addict and it hurts everyday!! I know in my heart that my husband gets more joy out of pornography than out of his own wife? Why me? I wonder this all the time! Am i not good enough? I hate the feeling his secret comfort gives me! Its like I dont satisfy him, Im not on his computer screen, so its not mysterious to him! Why does he choose them over me? What are the videos,...

My husband & I have been married for almost 15 years. We have been together for about 20 years. Our relationship was dysfunctional from the beginning. We had constant ups & downs. He would break up with me a lot. Now he admits that the break ups were a result of his porn addiction. I had no idea at the time, but was desperate for companionship so I would always forgive him, even running...

Hi, I was divorced by my wife in October 2009, I had committed adultery, More than once. I destroyed my wifes heart and all trust was broken with the final result of loosing my family. The Cost Of sin. I was having problems finding work and Porn moved to the top of my list of activities. I am a christain and have been saved for many years but this time porn sank its teeth in me deeper that I...