The Haps


Over the years we have had several different Podcasts. Let me take you on a throw back tour.

Dirty Little Secrets -  100 episodes with amazing guests (Audio only)
X3TV - 45 video episodes
X3’s Company - 13 video episodes and over 200 of your questions answered
XXXchurch Voices -  19 episodes on video with your favorite rock stars
Porn Kills - Video and a lot more
Open 24/7 - 13 extended...


Me too.

I struggle.

My struggle is lusting. 
The cootie shot I was given in 4th grade wore off and I was inflicted with a disease of selfish desire. 
I developed symptoms in middle school and the more hallways I walked the more I aimlessly meandered from my healthy innocence. Without a map I got lost staring with a dropped jaw and my misguided mind led me further from where I...

small groupsI have a confession.

About a month or so ago I wrote a blog post entitled “3 Reasons I Ditched Small Groups.”

I kinda lied.

I haven’t really “ditched” small groups. I just don’t go to one locally.

In fact, I help run the largest online video support group program out there for men and women struggling with sex addiction. We call it X3groups and it’s amazing.

In 2012 this program started with 1...

go small bookThe past year I’ve learned a lot and much of it is reflected in what I wrote for this new book coming out.

I think the best way to explain Go Small is that it’s really a celebration of the everyday.

That we need to have grace for ourselves and not get depressed when we feel like we had an average or even below-average day.

That we just do the best we can with what we have and trust that God...

I just sent this out on email and thought I would post it here. This offer is good until the end of the day on July 11th.

I'm still shocked everyday when I hear from people who are stuck. They know what they should be doing but they can't do it.

Let me tell you, I understand. We have all been there. That is why we created X3pure online workshops and X3watch Accountability Software. They are...

portfolioMany people are shocked to discover that they are profiting from, and supporting pornography through their investment accounts - and to a much greater degree than one might expect. The sad truth is that numerous and widely held household name companies are involved in the business of pornography.

As an investor in such a company, you are an owner of that company and are profiting from and...

Bryan Johnston is a pastor and long time friend of mine and XXXchurch.com.  Bryan is passionate about seeing lives restored from addictions and men and women experiencing freedom. Almost 10 years ago Bryan broke his neck while unloading some church staging for his church plant. He was paralyzed and told he would never walk again. We sit down for a chat and talk about the accident and the...

preventionI hope you enjoyed June as we raised awareness regarding the issue of pornography. Let me ask you real quick …

Did you take the Father’s Day Pledge (mom’s can take it too)?

Did you signup for the 30 Day Porn-Free Challenge?

If not, I encourage you to check out both those things right now. That being said … enough about June!

I’m sure you’ve heard the old saying “An ounce of prevention is worth...

pornIf you have followed our ministry for any period of time or tracked news stories on pornography addiction then you most likely have heard the argument that porn alters you brain. You might even say “damages” it.

The idea of pornography exposure actually affecting one’s brain is certainly a compelling argument for what we have always contended … porn is not healthy for you. But the question has...

XXXchurchI wanted to post a reminder of what XXXchurch is all about because occasionally we get people via email or social media questioning some of the content we post or share. It may be a link to a mainline site with some graphics in the sidebar that are provocative, it may be a newsletter we send out with a picture of an “attractive” woman, it could be a video from one of our outreach recaps, or it...