December 2nd.  To most This date means nothing.  How ever December 2nd is Christmas come early for me.  This will be my second year clean of porn.  This date will for ever stay in my head and I will continue to celebrate it.

Over the last two years Darcy & myself have been committed to re-building our relationship but, to also try and help others with this as well.  We have been blessed with the opportunities that xxxchurch has provided to do this.  During this time God has not only blessed us with hearing and seeing stories of others moving away from this addiction but, theses stories have also helped heal our relationship as well.

If you are a couple dealing with this issue and you feel as though there is no end to this and that your marriage could never survive this; please do not give up yet.  We know how difficult this is as a married couple working through trust, intimacy, and healing.  It is never an easy thing when someone is recovering from an addiction but, it is easier when you allow others in and most of all allowing God to walk with you as well.  I can honestly say that their is no way that we could have done this without others helping and most of all God.  Please know that you are not alone in this and that many are praying for you and willing to help

I would also like to thank everyone who has helped me with this over the last two years.  We know that there are many people out there who have or are praying for us on a regular basis and we thank you so much for that.  Past blogs we have done we've received some very nice feedback from people that has kept us moving forward during some slow times.  There are so many people that we are thankful that God has placed in front of us.  How ever a special thanks goes out to everyone at xxxchurch who have been a huge encouragement in our healing and change.

Brian & Darcy