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30 Days of Advice to Help You Stay Porn Free
We help tempted individuals struggling with online porn get free by connecting them to have open and honest relationships through our resources and accountability app so they can live in peace and say goodbye to porn forever.
Brittni is a former porn star that the original XXXchurch outreach team met while she was still working in the industry. After seven years of telling her Jesus loved her, she finally believed it.
Online video workshops to help marriages & individuals break free from chaos or addictions.
Have you ever thought, “God, I know I have a lust problem. But if you just give me the right dream partner, I’ll stop acting out”. Well, me too! Here’s how it played out for me.
My lust issues started very young with Playboy’s at eight and internet porn by age ten.
By the time I was in college I was watching porn sometimes multiple hours a day and living a life of fornication.
Thankfully I was invited to a college Bible study where I found Jesus. I surrendered many areas of my life to God that year but the one area that I held onto with a tight fist was sex and love.
One night in college, while watching porn, I saw a woman in one of the scenes who was physically stunning, 12 out of 10 hot. I stopped watching and made a ridiculous, but heartfelt prayer to God…. “Lord, I know I have a lust problem but if you could just give me a woman like that one, I’ll stop”.
From 21 years old until 26, I continued a relationship with Jesus, surrendering to the Lord my finances, family, and career. Jesus faithfully blessed them all. But I could never surrender porn and fornication. I’d give them up for small periods of time only to relapse and fall back into it even deeper.
At the end of this period I was dating a beautiful woman but neither one of us were honoring the Lord with our bodies and I was continuing to use porn. The relationship was toxic and ended in terrible heartbreak. I was devastated. It was the only time in my life I thought about suicide.
In my grieving, I remembered the night in college I prayed for the dream girl. Something in my heart told me to go back to that picture online. I went back to the picture and the dream girl I prayed for was the girl I just broke up with! Not a similar girl, she was the exact girl!
The very dream woman I told God would save me and keep me from acting out only made me more broken and on the verge of suicide!
In the coming weeks, Jesus taught me two lessons, 1) “I don’t know what’s best for me, God does”, and 2) Jesus is the only one who saves, not a partner.
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We all have one! It's totally normal to have a sex drive.
God gave us a sex drive to use in marriage. Sex bonds and binds you to your spouse. It deepens intimacy and gives you all the feels!
God is bigger than the struggles you face. Today, we challenge you to speak to your struggles and remind them how great your God is! Prophesy healing, freedom, and victory over your battles. You’re about to look temptation in the eye and tell it to flee because you are set free! Do you believe it?!
The more we give in to the temptation, the harder it gets to say no.
”The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you can endure.” – 1 Corinthians 10:13 (NLT)
Today, we pray God shows you a way out so you can endure. 🙏He is faithful. Stay open to hearing from him. He will always show you a way out. #XXXchurch
If you’re living with secrets then you might be suffering silently. It’s time to get open. It’s time to be transparent. The truth will set you free.
If you need someone to talk to, reach out XXXchurch.com
Whether it be porn or that sugary sweet midnight snack, it’s easier to say no and run from it than to sit and ponder with it. You’re more likely to say yes to temptation when you sit and have a conversation with it – take Eve for example. Shut that thought down immediately and phone a friend when you need to. #XXXchurch
Repentance is the start of restoration. A repentant heart attracts the presence of God, and it’s in His presence where restoration begins.
“Father, forgive me of my sins and shortcomings. Give me strength in your presence to walk in victory and freedom. The last thing I want to do is sin against you. I can’t walk in freedom without you. Be my strength. Let your word illuminate the darkness. Your word says that the light shines in the darkness, but the darkness has not overcome it. Let me be renewed in your light and not overcome by darkness. In Jesus' name.” #XXXchurch
Honoring God with your body is always worth it. #XXXchurch
Choosing purity over popularity isn’t easy. We live in a world that consists of a sex-culture. Sexual images are thrown at us daily via social media, television, and even kids shows. To protect our purity we need to be mindful of what we watch. Don’t watch a popular tv show just because everyone else is, especially if it’s affecting your walk with God. Don’t follow popular social media accounts if they hinder your purity. Always choose purity over popularity. #XXXchurch
Setting clear boundaries will set you up for success. When we’re overwhelmed, we will feel tempted to do things to release the tension. Sometimes that temptation is to watch porn. Saying ”no” from the get-go can protect you from the temptation because saying no protects you from putting too much on your plate. Protect your peace today by saying no to things that you don't really want to do anyway. #XXXchurch
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