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30 Days of Advice to Help You Stay Porn Free
We help tempted individuals struggling with online porn get free by connecting them to have open and honest relationships through our resources and accountability app so they can live in peace and say goodbye to porn forever.
Brittni is a former porn star that the original XXXchurch outreach team met while she was still working in the industry. After seven years of telling her Jesus loved her, she finally believed it.
Online video workshops to help marriages & individuals break free from chaos or addictions.
—— POWERFUL SPOKEN WORD ——
By @diva4eternity
I’m Breaking Up With You Porn
I’m breaking up with you porn. You’re a liar. You told me you were free, but you’ve cost me everything. You’ve taken my time, my money, my purity, and left me with false security.
I’m breaking up with you porn. You convinced me that I needed you to survive. You were the only source of “comfort” in my eyes. You took advantage of my vulnerability, and promised to fill the void in my heart from a lack of intimacy.
I’m breaking up with you porn. You kept beckoning me to come closer. I didn’t realize the risk. Each step only led me deeper into the abyss. Gone was my sanity, and I became enslaved by depravity.
I’m breaking up with you porn. You’ve partnered up with shame to try to keep me in this grave. I was convinced that I was disgusting; that I was unworthy. I was convinced that no godly man could ever love me. I was convinced that if I ever told anyone, all they would do is judge me. I was convinced that I couldn’t run back to God because I was too messy. So I kept running back to you because you’re all that I knew.
I’m breaking up with you porn. You thought you had the upper hand, but you were no match for God’s hands. He pulled me up out of the darkness and into the light. His grace paved the way for me, and His love is so overwhelming. He promised to fill that void in me, and I know He doesn’t make a single promise He can’t keep. Little by little He’s restoring me to the woman I was always meant to be.
Heart repairs aren’t an easy thing, and I know full restoration won’t happen over night. But I’m just incredibly thankful to be in the light. So I stand boldly and declare with all my might: I’m breaking up with you porn because I’ve been reborn! 🔥
If you haven’t checked out this week’s blog, you should.
@cynthiamaselli_com wrote a blog on conflict resolution because these are tools we all need in our shed!
If you don’t know how to manage conflict you might be tempted to avoid it by watching porn or by keeping busy. But avoiding doesn’t bring healing.
For more, link in bio.
https://www.xxxchurch.com/couples/healthy-conflict-resolution.html
Sure, it might be easier to avoid conflict. It might make more sense to not talk about the hard stuff, but what you don’t confront will never change.
Many people struggling with porn in marriage rarely talk about their struggles; and that’s part of the reason they are still struggling.
We encourage you be open and talk about what’s bothering you. Healthy conflict breeds healthy marriages.
Find out more on this week’s blog written by @cynthiamaselli_com
Link in bio.
https://www.xxxchurch.com/couples/healthy-conflict-resolution.html
Avoiding conflict doesn’t heal marriages. This week on the blog @cynthiamaselli_com talks about healthy conflict resolution.
Link in bio.
https://www.xxxchurch.com/couples/healthy-conflict-resolution.html
Statistics say that Sunday is the most popular day to watch porn, but the truth is, no day is a good day to watch porn. Porn destroys marriages, ruins families, and gives people a warped view of humanity. Scientific evidence proves that pornography triggers the same receptors as heroin. It is addictive and hard to stop using once you’ve gotten started. If you’re battling porn, you’re not alone and we are here to help. Reach out to us. You’ll also find tons of help on our website XXXchurch.com We love you and are believing that you too will get through this! You are a success story in the making.
Be kind to yourself. Recovery is an imperfect journey. If you fall, get back up, but don’t stay stuck their mentally. It’s hard to move forward when you keep beating yourself up for past mistakes.
Also, this week on the blog, @calledhigherbook talks about a love that changes lives. Link in bio.
https://www.xxxchurch.com/men/love-that-changes-lives.html
God will always provide a way out of temptation. Spending time in His presence daily & accountability are essential.
Do you seek God daily? How has that helped you fight against temptation?
Transparency silences shame and fear. Transparency sets you & others free!
This week on the blog @valorie_e._kieper talks about how to share your story to help others.
Check it out – link in bio.
https://www.xxxchurch.com/men/how-to-share-your-story-to-help-others-through-theirs.html
There is freedom in transparency. Don’t be ashamed of the very thing that Jesus died to free you from. Use your story to bring God glory. When you can be open and honest about what you’ve been through not only do you free yourself, but you free others as well.
Find out more about how to share your story on this week’s blog, by @valorie_e._kieper
Link in bio.
https://www.xxxchurch.com/men/how-to-share-your-story-to-help-others-through-theirs.html
Despite what you may have heard…. Man looks at the outward appearance, but God looks at the heart. It’s possible to be an impure virgin. God is looking for people who have a heart after him. He wants people who are humble enough to repent. He wants people who desire His word more than the things of this world. Sexual purity is just the overflow of a pure heart, but it doesn’t start with sex. It starts in the heart. ❤️
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