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Spouses

Husbands and wives, is porn addiction affecting your marriage? Have you found that porn has come in between the two of you and created an environment of mistrust? Truly, an addiction to pornography is one of the most difficult addictions to overcome. But that doesn’t mean it’s impossible! XXXchurch is your resource online to fight porn addiction. We prevail through awareness, prevention, and recovery.

We understand that you may feel as though your situation is hopelessly unique. That’s a natural way to feel, but we have news for you: it isn’t true! Yes, your relationship is completely unique, but you are not the only married couple whose lives have been impacted by porn. Many, many other married couples have managed to deal with porn addiction in either or both spouses and have found freedom and a renewed intimacy.

The following blogs were written by people who have either been where you are or who work in this field. They know what it takes to truly overcome an addiction to pornography and to bring restoration and healing to a marriage. Remember: you aren’t alone! Please browse these blogs and find the help, encouragement, inspiration, and practical advice you’ve been looking for.

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STATS

56%

% of divorce cases involved one party having an obsessive interest in pornographic websites

10%

% of americans who have had sex with a coworker

40 mil

U.S. adults who regularly visit internet pornography websites

61%

% of happily married men that are less likely to look at porn.

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Confession

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Not another 15 years.

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Unable to repent

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Dating Sites

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