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Men Still Don’t Get It … Apparently

by Craig Gross on December 5th, 2017 in Men, Women, Couples

Have you turned on the news lately?

Who was fired yesterday?

So far, a short list in the line-up of those accused of exemplifying inappropriate sexual behavior and harassment are:

   • NBC anchor Matt Lauer

   • CBS & PBS host Charlie Rose

   • NBC booking VP Matt Zimmerman

   • NPR News Chief Michael Oreskes

   • Amazon executive Roy Price

   • Hollywood film producer Harvey Weinstein

Two things stand out to me besides the craziness of men in high power positions trying to use that power to force sex on people. It’s ridiculous, but what blows my mind is how stupid men are! I wrote a book with Harvard-trained research expert Shaunti Feldhahn on the man’s brain and how its wiring is different from women.

Apparently many men still don’t understand these basic things:

  1. Women don’t want to see your penis or a dick pic… EVER.
  2. Exposing yourself to a woman is offensive, but it’s also just plain stupid.

In addition to lack of integrity, it shows men don’t know anything about women. Woman don’t want to see it. I can walk out of the shower naked, and my wife won’t look up from what she is doing. You want to turn on a woman?

Compliment her.
Do something for her.
Spend time with her.

Sending her dick pics or dropping your drawers in front of her? Come on, guys! If grown men haven’t figured this out yet, that women don’t care about their penis, then that’s part of the problem.

Yes, I’m mad about these stories, but what makes me more upset is that 40-year-old men don’t understand the basic principles I’ve taught my 14-year-old son. 

Watch this, then maybe you’ll “Get It.”

 

 

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  • Ben Constable

    I’m surprised it wasn’t mentioned in the article, but the explanation as to why guys do those things is because it works in the media they consume: porn! Girls don’t say ‘no’ in porn, especially when the man is ready to go. In porn, women who weren’t originally interested in the man, become interested once their sex-crazed eyes fall upon the man’s endowment. And THIS happens in porns because porn is the expression of the male sexual fantasy. It’s not about a girl’s emotional well-being or gentleman behaviour. In men’s fantasies, women don’t require that work, and are happy just to let you enjoy yourself. It’s conditoned delusion that then dictates these powerful men’s actions in real life, bolstered by their own sense of importance and the assumed attraction of others.
    The sad part is that at some point, this schtick has likely worked on someone (as far as they can tell), so it emboldens them to invincibility and perceived irresistability and it gets repeated. Then they attempt it on the wrong girl.

  • Blake Daniels

    On the flip side, MEN do not like getting their entire lives destroyed by libel and slander (bearing false witness) by degenerate women who have no qualms about using the power of the State and legal biases against men simply because they CAN out of whatever justification they can find (Attention, Regret Sex, $$$, or whatever else their minds can conjure up…). Remeber Joseph and Potiphars Wife? The more things change, the more they stay the same. I have no doubts that Hollywood is full of filth (as it’s their basic MO profiting) but not all of these so-called accusations have Merit. Whether Innocent or Guilty, let the evidence (or lack thereof) vindicate or convict these men, NOT the COURT OF PUBLIC OPINION. Or in this day of frothing at the mouth mob social justice mentality has the basic tenets of Justice been forgotten?

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