Frequently Asked Questions.
I am so angry. How do I deal with * years of lies? How? How do I deal with what I saw he was doing? How?
First, I want to say I am sorry! This is such a hurtful thing to deal with in a marriage or relationship. Dealing with anger and years of lies is something that takes time and practice. 😉
For me personally (I discovered the same thing repeatedly in my marriage) it took having to do some serious personal counseling and some basic studies on anger (biblically) and putting what I learned about myself and about the word in place. It takes time. Keep short accounts with God– always confessing when you blow it. Also keeping in mind that we really want to extend the same grace to others that we expect to be extended to us by God.
I can assure you that you are not alone and that if you really pursue healing in this area you will gain it!