Frequently Asked Questions.
While mastubating, a guy usually lasts about 2 to 3 min, my question is will that satisfy my wife when am married or does sex work differently in terms of lasting long. Am still a virgin aside from having mastubated in the past!! I have come a long way in my fight against it, though not fully yet but am very grateful to Christ as look back to where I was before. Another question is does masturbation affect a guys self-esteem? okay to be honest, am struggling with thoughts that I might not be able to satisfy my wife..does all this have root in porn and masturbation? and what’s the way forward for me?
We believe that the longer you lean on pornography to stimulate you sexually that it will affect your performance with your (future) wife.
However- we also believe that if you start setting yourself up to win and put good accountability in place and cleanse your mind with the truth of God’s word about sex and life that your mind will be renewed which means that you will be capable of having a normal and wonderful sex life with your (future)wife.
God bless you.
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Sometimes I sense and anget in me and thst plays out in a desire for rape porn even though the though of really hurting anyone in such a way discusts me.
Our minds can work overtime against us. It is good to know that your heart is *not* to hurt anyone. However; it is very important that you deal with this and the anger because often times things can escalate quickly and people can end up in situations they never imagined themselves being in.
My recommendation is to get some professional counseling. Be open and honest and get the help and healing you need to be free from that mindset which can lead to more if left unchecked and not dealt with.