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iPhone/resources

I have an iPhone that my mother had bought me last Christmas, I’m struggling at looking at porn and images/videos of girls to lust after.. Sometimes I can go awhile without it other times I give in.. Sometimes to easily I think. It’s gotten to the point where I fell like breaking the phone sometimes but I don’t want to do that because my mom has spent quite a bit on it. Are there free resources for the phone that can help me daily with this such as the x3watch? I would love to pay its just kinda difficult at the moment. I have a bible app.. But I mean as far as anything to aware my accountability partner or just gard me from it altogether, like block it? Any suggestions? Thanks.

If the iPhone is causing you to stumble repeatedly like this you may want to consider removing the web browser or just getting rid of this phone.

X3watch is free for computers and macs but there is a small fee for the app and those can only be purchased in the app stores.

Over Time

Is the addiction something I should expect to battle all my life ..daily? Or are there those who no longer have the urges?

I think everyone is different.  Some people have said it was instantaneously removed and others have said they have had to battle every day to walk in freedom.   I will say that with any addiction there are good days and bad days.   Sex addiction is one of the hardest in my opinions because we are bombarded by sexual images and ideas constantly in our culture.   Only the Lord can give us the grace and mercy to live a life of moral purity and freedom.

porn,mastrubation

I am not sure ,but I am not addicted to porn but I am addicted to masturbation,cant go a week without it.is it still wrong if I keep my thought clean while doing it?

We’ve answered this question repeatedly so therefore many struggle with this question. 

Is it conviction or is it condemnation you are sensing over habitual masturbation?  Only you can come to that conclusion for yourself.   We have taken the stance that sex (and sexual gratification) is designed for marriage as an expression of love and pleasure in that marriage– something only your spouse can give you.  It sets the marriage relationship above all others.

  While one may argue that they are not fornicating/lusting during masturbation,  the other question that arises is this:  By masturbating are you training your own body to respond to the pleasure that you bring about?    Could our bodies become dependant on self pleasure to the point that it takes away from instead of adds to the marriage bed?

I can’t answer that but many people that share their stories with us share that this indeed was true for them.

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