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help me please

i cant stop looking at porn. i’ve tried all sorts of things to stop and i just can’t. can anyone give me any help or advice.

the boy who needs help
matt

 

Your courage to come clean is extraordinary.
First, confess to God where you are at. Everything, the big and little stuff. He forgives you. Your heart must be ready for change. Go to him and prayer and get in the scriptures.
You must get accountability in your life. You need to tell someone about all of this. Someone you trust such as a pastor, close friend, or youth leader. Someone who is going to make you own your decision to change and call you out when you stumble. This is hard, but you must do it.
Then take practical steps in your life to clean it up. Get X3watch on your computer and have the reports sent to your accountability partner. X3watch is a program that you can put on your computer and sends any questionable websites to your one or two accountability partners. Go to x3watch to download the software. You must tackle your struggle head on by changing things in your life, do not get on the computer at times when your feel tempted, identify patterns in your life, possibly get rid of the computer, stop being alone with girls. Tackle it all head on, wherever you are at. This stuff is not worth it!
 
Let us know if we can be of any more help.
 

Phylicia

XXXCHURCH

Scripture:

Romans 13:13, 1 Corinthians 6:12 – 20, Ephesians 5:3, Colossians 3:5, 1 Thessalonians 4:3, Hebrews 13:4

 

Additional resources:

At the Altar of Steps of Sexual Idolatry, Steve Gallagher 

The Game Plan, Joe Dallas

Every Young Man’s Battle or Every Man’s Battle, Steve Arterburn 

Think Before You Look, Daniel Henderson

 

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Addiction

My addiction is a major source of unhappiness in my life, pornography is what i feel is keeping me back from the lord, and it also makes me wonder if i had a girlfriend, would i feel less tempted by all of this.

Shaun, we understand your struggle. You are not alone in this. Please know that having a girlfriend does not solve this issue. First off all, you need to seek sexual purity with a girl friend and with out. It can often be more tempting to engage sexually when you have a girl friend and porn can still be an issue. Do not look to a girlfriend to solve this. God wants to help you seek purity and for you to seek accountability and help from those you trust. I know the guilt can destroy. Check out the first steps to overcome:

First, confess to God where you are at. Everything, the big and little stuff. He forgives you. Your heart must be ready for change. Go to him and prayer and get in the scriptures.
You must get accountability in your life. You need to tell someone about all of this. Someone you trust such as a pastor, close friend, or youth leader. Someone who is going to make you own your decision to change and call you out when you stumble. This is hard, but you must do it.
Then take practical steps in your life to clean it up. Get X3watch on your computer and have the reports sent to your accountability partner. X3watch is a program that you can put on your computer and sends any questionable websites to your one or two accountability partners. Go to x3watch to download the software. You must tackle your struggle head on by changing things in your life, do not get on the computer at times when your feel tempted, identify patterns in your life, possibly get rid of the computer, stop being alone with girls. Tackle it all head on, wherever you are at. This stuff is not worth it!
 
Let us know if we can be of any more help.
 

Phylicia

XXXCHURCH

Scripture:

Romans 13:13, 1 Corinthians 6:12 – 20, Ephesians 5:3, Colossians 3:5, 1 Thessalonians 4:3, Hebrews 13:4

 

Additional resources:

At the Altar of Steps of Sexual Idolatry, Steve Gallagher 

The Game Plan, Joe Dallas

Every Young Man’s Battle or Every Man’s Battle, Steve Arterburn 

Think Before You Look, Daniel Henderson 

GET A FILTER!:

Safe Eyes is the only filter XXXchurch endorses.  Click here for your free 15 day trial!

Get X3WATCH, free accountability software! 

Not enough money for x3

My friend is currently fighting porn right now and is trying. Is there any free classes or articles to help my friend with his addiction?

x3watch – x3watch.com – is our FREE accountability software that can be a great tool for support and the desire to overcome. 

There are many other great resources for books, studies and articles on our site. Please see more here: https://www.xxxchurch.com/gethelp/teens/resources.html

Let us know if you need anything else.

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