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I was exposed to pornography at a friends house at 11. I have been free for the past 3 years but this past February a girl I had liked for a long period of time hurt me and out of anger and depression I fell back into it, I’m also the worship leader for the youth group and everytime I seem to escape I fall back in. What can I do?
Hey Ian,
Leadership without accountability is not leadership. You definitely need to be honest with someone in your church who you trust who can help hold you accountable and challenge you to live better. You are definitely not alone. You need to be real with people in your life.
You can overcome this!
I used my credit card to watch live videos on a porn site but then it charged me. so I called and told them I didn’t do that and they put it under fraud. im so scared now I just dot know what to do I was scared at the time I just relly need help right now. because im going to the bank today
I would advise that you pay the fees because you did watch it and you did give your credit card info. If you sign a fraud statement (afidavit) stating otherwise you could actually be prosecuted.
I have a question. Is it a sin to masturbate while thinking of your wife. The reason I ask is because my wife and I waited to have sex until marriage but we can not have sex much because she states that it hurts. We have been to the doctor and the doctor can not find anything wrong. We have been marriaged for 3 years and when we do have sex like once every three weeks I can not put my private part all the way in or she will have to stop immediately. So I ask can you masturbate while thinking only of your wife or is that a sin.
Hey Carl,
I appreciate your dilemma. You are not the first couple to experience these challenges. But I’m still unclear as to why you would need to masturbate. There are other things you and your wife can do to bring about the oneness in the marriagebed that leads to orgasm. Maybe instead of a physician you and your wife might consider a counselor to help you work through some other options together.
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