Frequently Asked Questions.
How can I download the software to my computer?
Go to www.x3watch.com you can download it form there.
Hi, my name is Adrian (most people call me Jr). My question is can porn kill the fire of the Holy Spirit? Because when i was younger i would feel this heavy burden when i would watch it, but now as it has reached a point to where the addiction is so bad I don’t feel the burden telling me to run. I know my “salvation” can not be taken away but now im not even sure if i’m a Christian since i don’t feel the burden anymore.
Porn can cause for the fire to hide or to be distant. Not because He has taken it away but, because we turn to our sin for comfort and pleasure instead of relying on Him.
Hey I’m in need of help but I’m scared of my family knowing that I was going watch porn. Yes I’m a girl who is in need of help no money for the help but I need and wanted to ask Is there help for me and god can forgive me to love again?
Confess this to God and tell Him that you want to change and that you want for Him to send people in your life who will help you win this fight. He will hear your pray and He is a powerful God but, He will not just come down here and stop it for you. He will provide you the tools and the resources but, He wants you to step and do this thing.
After you have talked to God about this find someone right away that you know who can be your accountability partner. Someone who you see often and will have the ability to hold you accountable at all costs. Being your age I would suggest it be someone who is your elder and will be able to provide good mature counsel on this issue. This can be someone from your church, family member, and maybe even your parents. I know this step is tough but, you have to do this if you want to get free from this. You will not be able to do this on your own.
After you have an accountability partner you need to sit down with them and build a plan figure out what your triggers are and how they affect you. Get accountability software. If the internet or mobile devices are you hang up and this is where you turn to get your porn, get accountability and filter software right away and get this covered. We have a great program called X3 Watch that you could use for this. Set up a meeting schedule to meet with your accountability partner to discuss how things are going and if you are following your sobriety plan that you have developed with them.
Do not think this will go away over night; you have trained your brain to need this crap and you will need to train your brain that it is not needed and that it will hurt you. Celebrate small victories and do not give up if there are stumbles, keep going and dig in for the fight. Please know that you are not alone in this and that God loves you so much. He will never remove His love for you because of what you did, are doing, or might do during your recovery. We are here praying for you and know that you can do this.