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Masturbation

Hello All! I have been a Christian since a very young age growing up in a Christian home. I used to struggle with a porn addiction, but through the grace of God I have been porn free for a couple of months now! God does do amazing work!!!!!! But I still often find myself masturbating, and wanted to ask if this is Biblically wrong?? I no longer urge to watch the porn while I do masturbate, so as long as I’m not watching porn, is masturbation fine?? This is a question I struggle with in my life, and would greatly value your opinion! Thank you! God Bless!

We take the stance that God designed sex and sexual stimulation to be mutual in marriage- a gift to give your spouse.   Masturbation only serves self.    It has also been noted repeatedly mentioned amongst so many who have struggled with this that the body can become dependant on masturbation for stimulation and then is not as sensitive in responding to the mutual stimulation found with a spouse. 

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Hello! I’m too ashamed to say my name ad I need prayers. I’m a 15 year old girl and I’ve always been around an amazing Christian family. I go to a Christian school and i have an amazing Christian boyfriend a well. I bring this up because I have been addicted to porn and even fantasy making for a very long time now. I thought I was clean when I had stopped this summer but I got an “itch” today and I went on a site. I hate that I do this and I want to change so bad!! My dad is a Youth Director but I’m terrified to tell him. I’m afraid to even go to my pastor. Even my boyfriend doesn’t know. I have never had any fantasies about doing those things with him and I don’t ever want to. I’m terrified to tell anyone though because I’m afraid of what will happen. This is the first time I’ve ever said this and I hope someone can help me. I need your prayers and advice!! -Ashamed

Dear Ashamed,

 

This sin thrives in isolation.   The bible says to confess your sin and you will prosper.   Please pray about going to your parents or your pastor for help.  I would not necessarily recommend the boyfriend as an accountability partner or confession person.

You are not alone. 

masturbation

even when i’m not watching porn i’m always thinking of masturbation. i need to get my thoughts clear. How can i make this happen?

The bible tells us that the way to renewing our minds is by washing it with the Word of God.

I would suggest a media fast- (no internet/ television/ magazines etc.) for 30 days.  In those 30 days read the word of God where you would normally be on the computer, watching TV, playing games, or reading magazines/books.    Its amazing what a good “cleansing” can do.

Best wishes!

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