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This is a really tough place to be for both of you.   But especially for you with regards to rights over your unborn child in our country vs. your girlfriends rights to her body.  I’m pretty certain your girlfriend can make the decision without you.  Hopefully she will hear your heart and will take that into consideration when making her decision.   We are not professional counselors here so I cannot give you professional advice but I can give you some suggestions and I can pray for all of you.

There are alternatives to abortion if your girlfriend is not ready to devote her life to a child. I believe Adoption is one of the most loving and selfless acts a parent can do if indeed they know they are unable for whatever reason to provide for another human being.   Adoption is a great alternative because not only are you allowing the child to keep his/her life but you are giving potential adoptive parents the chance at a heart’s desire that only someone selfless enough to give up a child to them can bring.

There are also homes available throughout the country for pregnant/unwed women.   One that I am familiar with personally is –> Florence Crittenton <–.    Catholic charities offers many as well (and you don’t have to be catholic or even of any faith for that matter).  In these homes, life doesn’t stop.  A young woman can still continue her education, work if she wants to, take all kinds of prep classes for whether she is adopting the baby out or keeping it.   She can receive counseling and most times all of the costs are paid for through donations and the state or potential adoptive parents.

Ironically— I was in your girlfriend’s shoes 31 years ago–but I was 2 years younger than she.  Sadly though, I did not have the family support (at that time) that it sounds like your girlfriend has.  I chose to go to Florence Crittenton.   My son is now 31 and I have my first grandchild.  =)

There is always hope.  I’ll be saying prayers for you/r situation.

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I hope this helps!

I’m sorry you are dealing with this in your marriage.  We understand how painful it is and what a roller coaster of emotions it brings.

We would recommend you start with “I just found out my spouse uses porn”   Hopefully this post will help encourage you and point you to some resources.

A book that I find quite helpful when I decided to stand in the gap and seek God for the restoration of my husband’s spirit and his ‘sin-sickness’ was Laurie Hall’s book “An Affair of The Mind”

Lastly– I would recommend seeking out some counseling for your marriage.  If your husband refuses to go, then you go.   You need the guidance and the support.