Questions

Frequently Asked Questions.

Building trust after porn

What should a man do to build the trust of his partner after her finding out that he’s been watching porn and hiding other things from her?

 

This is a great question!   I would say the only way to rebuild trust is for you to work on you and get the help you need to walk this out.  Be honest and forthright and make sure you have set yourself up to succeed.   As she sees your integrity improving in your own walk she will start to feel more secure.     The problem with just focusing on doing things to “win her” is that ultimately it’s going to fail.  You can’t do this for anyone else but you and for who God has called you to be.   His word says to seek him first and then everything else will fall into place.  😉

 

Starting to quit

I have been struggling with porn for a couple of years now and recently due to a sermon I heard and this website I really want to stop going down this path but I don’t know how to start quitting. Where’s a good place to start quitting?

 

A great place to start is confession and surrender.  The bible tells us that if we confess our sins we will prosper.   Confess to God and then begin to pray and think about who a good “accountability partner” would be in your circle that can help hold you accountable and walk this out with you.  If you need some tips on accountability– Craig’s book OPEN is a great place.  Get accountability software on your computer at least and at best a filtering software like X3watch premium.    I would also recommend that you spend some time in the students section of XXXchurch.com and then the men’s section looking through all of the resources, the blogs etc.   You will start to see that you are not alone in this battle and there will be practical suggestions on how to begin to walk out freedom from porn and sex addiction!

 

Porn to Lust to Gay

I’m almost 18 years old, but there is a sin that I would never forgive myself for. It was because of watching porn (basically) gay porn. I was full of lust for men and then I fell in a trap and I made a gay masturbate for me. I believe in Jesus that he forgave my sin. I just can’t forgive myself of what I did and what I did to God. I always feel horrible, and I can’t even tell my accountability partner what I did. It’s been 3 years since that happened. How could I live with such guilt? What would I tell my future wife about this situation?

 

If you have confessed it and it has been three years and you are still living with guilt and shame then you need to know that is not from God.  I would recommend that you get some counseling to help you through it or talk to a trusted friend or pastor.   

 

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