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Hi my name is Braeden and if been addicted to porn for a year now with only one way out, telling my mum but I have a fear of discipline and every time she calls me with an angry voice extream dread hits my heart like a cannon shot, I can’t keep living with this secret but I’m to scared to tell her that I’m going through this, this is actually my worst fear. On top of all this my porn addiction has taken a toll on my relationship with God, Iv received many emails from Craig Gross but I have no idea how to write back, any ways I know that God is calling me to tell my mum about my porn addiction but I’m too scared and until I do tell her God won’t hear my prayer’s, how do I overcome this fear of man so that I can overcome porn ? 🙁
I would encourage you to study the scriptures about confession- about mercy and about forgiveness. If you don’t feel you can talk to your mom right now about this- perhaps you can talk to a trusted friend or pastor/ youth pastor? There are many free resources in every category at XXXchurch.com Read through the articles and the blogs.
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Okay, I have been married to my husband for a little over a year. We have been together for almost 4 years. For the past few months we only have sex once or twice a week, three times at most! We used to have sex everyday at least once and up to 4 times a day, and occasionally skipping a day here and there. I am very confused as to what is going on. Its not like the bedroom isnt kept spicy Im always teasing him in different ways and trying new foreplay to get him going. I can still get him hard very easily. But before if he went longer than three days without sex he would cum in like 5 min or less, now its 7 or 8 days between sexual contact and he lasts forever. I also consider masturbation cheating, because there is no reason to pleasure himself when he has someone who will do everything he wants and desires. Same thing with porn, because if he lusts with his eyes he has already committed adultery! And Our bedroom has never lost its flame like this before, I need advise! He knows and has known what I consider cheating from the word go, when we first dated! Am I crazy?? help please! I dont know what else to do?
I don’t want to minimize your concern or what you feel is problematic. I just know that many married women would be so overjoyed to have sex with their husband’s once a week let alone 2-3 times. Every single day and even several times a day is quite excessive for the long haul. I’m not convinced that your husband is seeking out self pleasure or anything else if you both are together 2-3 times a week but if you seriously think there is a problem then I would suggest the two of you seek a marital counselor together to discuss your concerns.
Hi there. I am wanting to download your programme that stops any access to porn sites. I have 4 boys and feel it is a huge necessity. Please could you go through, step by step how I do this. I would like to put it on all our technology ie smartphones, ipads and computers. Is it possible to have everything linked to one account, under one name? What will the cost be and can I pay with my credit card in South Africa? Kind regards
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