Porn addiction for married men could cause them to lose their intimacy with their wives. Instead of resolving their problems together, he will go into a fantasy world where she would not be able to reach him. Understanding and communication will be lost.  The husband, instead of asking what needs to be done to make the relationship happy again resorts to pornography. It alienates the wife and causes an emotional gap that eventually can lead to divorce. Through pornography a real connection with his wife would not be possible.  Pornography is one big lie that seeks to wreak havoc on a happy marriage. It seduces the husband with false closeness, giving him false confidence.  Hard core pornography serves gives disturbing images, once a man gets addicted to them; it is hard to turn back. Sadistic behavior and even disgusting videos of humans having sex with animals will only serve to destroy rather than give a real happy existence.  Husbands who are addicted live a life of guilt and paranoia of being discovered.

Husbands, who start to resort to pornography, lose confidence in themselves. They fail to gain the respect that they need to feel useful and effective heads of the family.  It can also create expectations in the bedroom which the wife cannot relate to, this can also cause the wife to feel insecure about herself, because it would be perceived that she is not enough to cater to her husband’s needs. Creating tension and a lot of misunderstanding, it dehumanizes the other person in the relationship. Although others might perceive this as a creative step, it hinders a man from loving his wife, without the need of pornographic suggestions. Pornography only serves to create more lies, and if left uncontrolled could be devastating