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Frequently Asked Questions.
I dealt with Pornography for 5 years before I got married. Up to the day I got Married, I was porn free for 6 months and thought it was under controlled. Now after over a year, It has come back to tempt me on a much stronger desire I have never felt before and I am slowly falling back into viewing pornography. I have been very good at keeping it a secret to everyone but I am so scared of my wife finding out and hurting her that I feel sick every time I view something. Am I able to overcome this without including my wife or should I tell my wife what I am going through?
We always believe that honesty is the best way to confront something- but that being said I think it is important that your wife is in a position to receive the information. It might be beneficial to sit down with a pastor and work through some of this with his guidance and then bring your wife in on the conversation. We also have X3groups running strong here at XXXchurch, you might want to check into those as well.
God bless
I desperately need serious help. i’m a christian but porn has been a thorn in my flesh for over 10years.i pray to God for forgiveness every morning,then the next night i’m back to watching porn.if i continue like this i’m gonna miss God’s kingdom…i started masturbating 5months ago,i sincerely have tried to stop doing it,but my efforts are no good and i’m beginning to feel i’l never be able to overcome these things.There are no accountability partners in my area…Please everyone,i desperately need help…Thanks and God bless you all for the work you’re doing in this site
What do you mean there are no accountability partners in your area? Are you in church or school? Surely there is someone in your sphere of influence that you can seek out to be OPEN with. If seriously no, then check into our X3groups.
You are not alone but you definitely need some boundaries and accountability in place so you can set yourself up for the win!
I’ve had a porn/masturbation problem since I was 13, thankfully I was able to stop when I was 18 (I am 19 now). After that I dove into the the Godly things and was even selected to serve at my church. Recently I had an urge to watch porn and I slipped and did both. Now I don’t know how to feel or don’t know what to do. I feel ashamed that I fell after 1 year of going strong and that I have responsibilities at church. Please help.
Proverbs 24:16 says that though a righteous man falls seven times, he will get up! So get up! Get up and begin to walk out your victory one day at a time just like you did before. If you did it then, you can do it again! Be encouraged. One year is wonderful and one fall does not take away all that God has done in that year. Keep pursuing peace, righteousness and the Lord and you will make it!
Accountability is a key ingredient so make sure you are confessing your sin to someone you trust and asking them to help hold you accountable.
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