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Frequently Asked Questions.
I just watched the interview with Brittni …. I am crying so much…. I love her dearly, she is a big star now. I am so alone as her father in this. The only person I can talk to is God. I don’t know what to say most times so I play it off like its no big deal. I die in fire if thought it would help her. Is there anyone I can talk too?
I’m so sorry you are hurting. I can only imagine the pain of seeing your little girl with this type of “fame”.
We have an entire section for parents & family of industry workers. You can also email [email protected] and she will send you something specifically to help you on this journey.
How do you get rid of teenage cravings for sex? Like as a teen it’s all you see or hear about. How do you stop/ lose cravings?
Oh wouldn’t this just be magical?! To kill the power of the flesh and desires instantaneously would be remarkable– but sadly it doesn’t work that way. We are told that we will have troubles (and struggles etc.) but that through Christ we can overcome just as He overcame the world. It looks great on paper but it is a lot harder to solidify in action.
The best thing I have known to work for me is to make sure that what is before me is going to champion me. In other words… I don’t watch television shows that provoke certain arousals within me. Some may call that legalistic, I call it wise. I don’t go to places that I know will be triggers or a “slippery slope” for me.
I take responsibility for what I allow in my space including my head-space! I read things that are edifying and will build me up and I stay away from things that will make me yearn for things I don’t have or shouldn’t have.
And well… with the natural, normal urges…. you have to rule over them and not allow them to rule over you. It is not always easy but it is possible.
Hey I just turned 15 and i didn’t start looking at porn until about a year ago and ever since, i look at it when ever i have the chance to. But, the other problem is I am really confused right now in my sexuality and most of the porn i look up is is Gay porn. I have tried guilting myself into stopping and it has not worked. And im really scated to tell anyone because people all ready accuse me of being Gay and I am not sure that they are wrong. I allways tell myself it is just a stage I’m going through, and i hope it is right and i all ready masturbate at least once every two days and i dont know what to do.
Have you ever heard or read the scripture about the “kindness of the Lord leads to repentance”? (Romans 2:4)
It was the first thing that came to my mind when I read what you wrote about guilting yourself into stopping. You need unconditional love and kindness. Not bullying by others about your sexuality and you certainly don’t need to throw guilt upon yourself either.
Jesus tells us to cast our burdens onto Him and He will carry them. He loves you just the way you are and He wants you to come to Him with your struggles and your doubt. He has a plan for you and for your life and He means you well. Seek Him and stay in His word. Allow Him to work in your heart and in your life.
Please try to talk with your pastor or an adult who you know cares about you and who lives the kind of life you want to live.
And don’t ever ever ever doubt God’s love or plan for you.
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